I got obsessed with that . I started looking everywhere and seeing shame in people 's behaviors , from their silence to their violence , from their gender-reveal parties to their big white weddings .
我对这一点很着迷。我开始到处寻找,在人们的行为中看到羞耻,从他们的沉默到他们的暴力,从他们的性别揭发派对到他们的白色大婚礼。